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		<title>Happy Thanksgiving</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 06:52:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanksgiving is a time to give thanks to God and those you cherish. I am so grateful and blessed to do what I love every day and to be a part of your life. I’d like to show you my gratitude this Thanksgiving with special savings. You’ll find extra discounts on already discounted packages, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanksgiving is a time to give thanks to God and those you cherish. I am so grateful and blessed to do what I love every day and to be a part of your life. I’d like to show you my gratitude this Thanksgiving with special savings.</p>
<p>You’ll find extra discounts on already discounted packages, and prices <em>include</em> processing fees if you’d like to pay with credit card via PayPal. So, if you know you’ll use the sessions stock up and save. This offer is good until the weekend after Thanksgiving (11/27/11).</p>
<p>Feel free to forward this offer or give a gift to those you care about!</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Thanksgiving Special</strong></span></p>
<p>Session Prices:</p>
<p>Single session (one hour): $125<br />
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<p>If you’d like to pay with a Credit Card – just click on the Pay Pal link below the package you&#8217;d like. Processing fees are <em>included</em> in the Special Price. Or pay by check by mailing by the date above or bring to your next session. If you&#8217;d like to give a gift, just include the recipient&#8217;s name in the memo at check-out or send me an email.</p>
<h4>I’m SO grateful for you!  ~ Nova</h4>
<h3><span style="color: #993300;">Happy Thanksgiving</span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #808080;">Pre-paid sessions are valid for 3 years, and are transferrable. Packages are not refundable.</span></p>
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		<title>Purposeful Sunrise</title>
		<link>http://stepstonesforlife.com/blog/2011/04/13/purposeful-sunrise/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 05:24:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As soon as you begin to stir in the morning, be aware and think about the purpose you&#8217;ve defined in your life. Open your eyes and soak up the warmth of the sunrise, breathe in the energy filling the air. Before your feet even touch the ground, recite three times your mission statement for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As soon as you begin to stir in the morning, be aware and think about the purpose you&#8217;ve defined in your life. Open your eyes and soak up the warmth of the sunrise, breathe in the energy filling the air. Before your feet even touch the ground, recite three times your mission statement for the day.</p>
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<p>Mine: &#8220;Lord, fill me with strength, love, and direction. Let my purpose guide me to serve others and bring joy to their lives. I am filled with strength, love, energy, and guidance. Let the day begin.&#8221; ~ Nova</p>
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		<title>Achieving Balance</title>
		<link>http://stepstonesforlife.com/blog/2011/01/09/achieving-balance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jan 2011 16:17:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Balance is the ability to take in moments of joy even within the midst of great difficulty. &#8211; Nova &#160;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">Balance is the ability to take in moments of joy even within the midst of great difficulty. &#8211; Nova</p>
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		<title>The Benefits Of Food Combining</title>
		<link>http://stepstonesforlife.com/blog/2009/10/18/the-benefits-of-food-combining/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:17:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Food Combining is a healthy way of eating that allows you to eat until you are satisfied, burns fat, gives you more energy, and creates balance within your system. The principles of food combining are based on how Insulin works in your body. When you eat carbohydrates, your body breaks them down into glucose which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Food Combining is a healthy way of eating that allows you to eat until you are satisfied, burns fat, gives you more energy, and creates balance within your system. The principles of food combining are based on how Insulin works in your body. When you eat carbohydrates, your body breaks them down into glucose which elevates your blood sugar. Insulin balances your blood sugar by carrying glucose to your cells. When your cells get filled with sugar, they won’t accept anymore and the sugar is stored as fat. Insulin surges may leave you feeling tired, or down, lowers your concentration, and also increases cravings. Repeated Insulin surges may lead to Insulin Resistance which causes weight gain, mood swings, and disease.</p>
<p>Some carbohydrates raise the blood sugar more than others. Refined, processed carbohydrates, such as white rice, potato chips, and white flour, are much harder for your body to break down. Complex carbohydrates, such as whole grains, brown rice, and vegetables, cause minimal to moderate increases in your blood sugar. By cutting back on bad carbohydrates, you force your body to use fat reserves for energy which results in a healthier metabolism and balance.</p>
<p>The other source of energy our body uses are proteins and fats. Eaten alone, protein and fat do not raise Insulin levels. In order for your body to store fat, Insulin must be present. Our bodies need protein and good fats (unprocessed) for healthy cells, good skin, strong, lean muscles, concentration, and a stable mood. If you do not “combine” Protein/Fats with Carbohydrates, you will not store fat.<br />
The purpose of Food Combining is to balance and regulate your body at its optimal level. The benefits are a lean body, increased energy, increased concentration, and elevated mood. Food Combining is not a diet. Diets are short-term and restrictive. Food Combining is a healthy way of eating that you can follow the rest of your life. Deciding to make a change in your Lifestyle takes effort, and some getting used to. Once you practice the concepts of Food Combining, break bad habits, and see the results, you will find the principles become second nature. A healthier you will emerge!</p>
<p>Notes and Summary:</p>
<p>*There are two Meal Choices:<br />
1. Protein/Fats and Veggies<br />
2. Carbs and Veggies</p>
<p>*Once your body becomes completely balanced, and you look and feel the way you like, you can start adding Carbohydrates in moderation to your Protein meals.</p>
<p>*ShapeWorks Shakes are meal replacements for either type of meal having both protein and good carbohydrates.</p>
<p>*Nuts are best eaten alone as they contain both protein and carbohydrates.</p>
<p>*Before beginning any change in eating habits, diet, or exercise always consult your physician.</p>
<p>By: Life Coach Nova Reed Copyright © Step Stones For Life 2009 Food Combining</p>
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		<title>Spring Into Action</title>
		<link>http://stepstonesforlife.com/blog/2009/10/18/spring-into-action/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Spring is a time of growth and renewal when new life bursts open with warmth and vitality. A chance to start anew, revive relationships, and energize your life. Plan your own fresh start by implementing three strategies of empowerment that will spring you toward a full and passionate life. Make new goals to care for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spring is a time of growth and renewal when new life bursts open with warmth and vitality. A chance to start anew, revive relationships, and energize your life. Plan your own fresh start by implementing three strategies of empowerment that will spring you toward a full and passionate life.</p>
<p><strong>Make new goals to care for yourself</strong>. Try that Pilates class, take a walk during lunch, have a nutritious breakfast. Rather than focusing on taking away something, focus on adding in a new, healthy addition to your day. By focusing on improvement rather than deprivation, you are starting a positive, nurturing, and self-affirming cycle.</p>
<p><strong>Challenge yourself to accomplish new things</strong>. Individuals who find challenges rewarding are hardier in facing obstacles in life. A natural resiliency builds from taking on stimulating challenges. A release of anti-stress hormones occurs through your body after completing a challenging task similar to exercise. Accomplishments make you feel good, energized, and generate positive motivation. Make the effort to expand yourself intellectually and emotionally. Read a new book, take on a new area in work, reach out of your usual comfort zone and try something new and exciting.</p>
<p><strong>Start a Positive Cycle in your relationships</strong>. The language you use can persuade others to hear you and generate mutual understanding. Words are powerful. Focus on asking for what you do want, rather than what you don’t. When you use positive communication you are reinforcing your message by creating a visual of the behavior or action you’d like to see. Reinforce the positive qualities you enjoy in others by stating one unique affirmation a day. You will be met with gratitude, appreciation, and positive energy in return. By learning you can influence others, and generate the quality of relationship you would like, you will feel empowered, capable, and positive.</p>
<p>Go and blossom!</p>
<p>Warmly,</p>
<p>Life Coach Nova<br />
Step Stones For Life</p>
<p>Email: Nova@StepStonesForLife.com<br />
Business: 949.858.2442</p>
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		<title>Living Congruently With Your Soul</title>
		<link>http://stepstonesforlife.com/blog/2009/10/18/living-congruently-with-your-soul/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:10:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Create Meaning and Purpose 1. Clear away &#8220;untruths&#8221; Untruths comprise a limited self-definition of oneself inconsistent with your soul. They are by definition untrue to your soul. Untruths can be difficult for the individual to spot, but speak clearly through language. I look for untruths in my clients within the language that they use, such [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Create Meaning and Purpose</p>
<p>1.<strong> Clear away &#8220;untruths&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Untruths comprise a limited self-definition of oneself inconsistent with your soul. They are by definition untrue to your soul. Untruths can be difficult for the individual to spot, but speak clearly through language. I look for untruths in my clients within the language that they use, such as I can’t, or I shouldn’t. Experiences of the past can reinforce untruths and quietly convince us we can’t accomplish our goals, find true love, or trust. By delving into the experiences that have somehow supported an untruth, while at the same time finding experiences that contradict this limited self-belief, the untruth becomes an apparent road block to burst through. Your soul has been waiting to plow through that road block, and has been providing you clues to investigate the validity of your pain, frustration, and unhappiness. Happiness is living congruently with your soul, serving your purpose, and reaching your destiny. Make the decision to break free from hindering self-doubt, conformity, and hesitation. Clear the way for your soul.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Clear away physical congestion</strong></p>
<p>Physical Congestion results from imbalance – emotional, physical, and spiritual. Physical symptoms of stress such as headaches, muscle pains, and fatigue are flashing red lights to take notice and care for yourself. Exercise in moderation filtered into your daily routine provides a sure way to address imbalance and clear the way for positive energy. Diet remains a hot issue in our society, and fad diets have hit an all time high. Here’s the key when seeking to live congruently with your soul: Moderation – simple, effective, and doable. Feed your soul with foods that will comfort you physically. Now this is a trick sentence, as processed foods we tend to think of as “comfort” food, do not comfort you physically, but rather poison our body’s natural ability to metabolize and burn our food as fuel. Comfort food in my book comforts your body naturally by increasing serotonin levels in the brain, giving you more energy, and satiating hunger. Don’t leave your soul hungry! What do you eat? My rule of thumb is…anything that God makes is OK to eat, whole grains, natural proteins, veggies, and fruit. Protein has been a focus of study after study, finding that our bodies need protein to maintain health, mentally and physically. Eat small meals frequently throughout the day rather than three large meals. Focus on eating to live rather than living to eat.</p>
<p>3.<strong> Listen to your soul</strong></p>
<p>Once you have cleared the way, your soul will speak more clearly. The voice will sound like a familiar whisper of intuition, a nudge in the right direction. And when you listen, well, I get chills. Your body will signal when you get it right. Your life will signal when you are listening to your soul. Your relationships will improve, your outlook on life will be brighter, and your whole being will be at peace. You may not be consciously aware you are moving in the right direction until you reach a milestone which signals your arrival of success. Staying on your path takes work, so when you feel off balance – stop – and refocus. Follow the steps above again until you find your path to fulfillment once again. The more you focus on living congruently with your soul, the brighter your path will become. The brighter your path becomes, the more detailed your preferred life will become. The more detailed your preferred life, the richer your experience in the world becomes. The richer your experience in the world, the more meaning you find in your life. The more meaning you have in your life, the greater your purpose becomes…and you become congruent with your soul.</p>
<p>Here’s to your journey!</p>
<p>Comments? Questions? Please feel free to post your comments or questions at the bottom of the page. We all learn and grow from each other.</p>
<p>Author: Nova Reed, M.A., Life Coach<br />
Website: <a href="http://www.stepstonesforlife.com/">www.StepStonesForLife.com</a></p>
<p>You can contact Nova by email: <a href="mailto:Nova@StepStonesForLife.com">Nova@StepStonesForLife.com</a><br />
Or Call: 949-858-2442</p>
<p>*Consult your physician before beginning any exercise routine or modifying your diet, especially if you have been inactive or have health concerns.</p>
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		<title>Living A Balanced Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finding Balance Would you like to live fully with vitality, health, and prosperity? The secret to living a content, happy, and productive life is finding balance. Realizing the state of being balanced includes emotional stability, physical strength, spiritual harmony, and the means to decide. The decision to influence or determine the outcome of one’s life [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding Balance</p>
<p>Would you like to live fully with vitality, health, and prosperity? The secret to living a content, happy, and productive life is finding balance. Realizing the state of being balanced includes emotional stability, physical strength, spiritual harmony, and the means to decide. The decision to influence or determine the outcome of one’s life by being balanced requires dedication, effort, and fluidity. Just relaxing, getting away, recharging your batteries, while very beneficial, is not enough to achieve living a balanced life. Balance implies a continuous state, a push and pull in equal directions resulting in complete stability to waver any wobbles in life while remaining sure footed enough to succeed.</p>
<p>The concept of balance often arises in my sessions. In fact, most seek help because some part of their life is “out of balance” and the discomfort pushes them to reach out. It is so with your health as well. When your throat hurts beyond toleration, you go to the doctor knowing treatment can alleviate the discomfort. The same is true for disharmony within the family and yourself. Being a Life Coach, I have the fantastic position to offer help at all levels. Whether your life is a little out of balance, or in complete turmoil, I can be of assistance and help you find comfort.</p>
<p>I often think back in my life and recall lessons I’ve learned that have helped me integrate all my studies in psychology, health, wellness, and coaching. One visual that I often picture is walking the balance beam. I was once a competitive gymnast. I loved everything about gymnastics. Using your body to create something beautiful to watch, reaching and stretching outside of what others could do, and finding that perfect state of “balance”. I would get lost in the rhythmic motions and tune out the whole world, focused on movement, balance, and creation. I can recall my coach telling me the one factor that continually put me ahead on the beam was my ability to trust myself, and not be afraid. Living a balanced life reminds me of the same dedication, concentration, and movements on the balance beam.</p>
<p>Imagine a 2 ½ inch beam, on which you will not only walk, but do cartwheels, back-flips, and spin around full circle on the ball of your feet. Managing the challenges of life is a lot like walking the balance beam. You learn very quickly, if you loose concentration, you WILL fall, and guess what? It hurts! So you are motivated to stay on course. Much the same, if you loose focus with your life, it hurts. It hurts physically, emotionally, and financially.</p>
<p>The act of walking the balance beam, and walking a balanced life requires three simple steps:</p>
<p>1. FOCUS</p>
<p>Focus not on the beam itself below you, but directly ahead. Looking ahead in life manifests movement forward, keeps your head up, and creates a goal. Intense concentration requires a knowing of your abilities, concern only for what really matters, and a relaxed energy that guides you so deeply it seems without thought.</p>
<p>2. FAITH</p>
<p>How do you know where to put your next step if you don’t look down? By trusting you know the way to the end of beam. When you reach out to take a step, you hold your arms out for balance, focus on the end of the beam, and gently dip your foot along the side of the beam to feel your placement. As you brush the side of the beam, you feel confidence and deliberately place your foot ahead of you. Faith is having trust the beam will be there, trust in your ability to stay on course, and trust in the outcome.</p>
<p>3. DEDICATION</p>
<p>The beauty of fluidity comes from constant practice. Repeating the same routine over and over until you could close your eyes and still see the end of the beam. Living a balanced life is exactly the same. Practice focusing on your goals. Practice trusting and having faith. Practice holding your arms out, taking steps, and believing in yourself.</p>
<p>I believe in you.</p>
<p>Start living a balanced life. Call or email me to walk a balanced life.</p>
<p>With warmth,</p>
<p>Life Coach Nova</p>
<p>Email: Nova@StepStonesForLife.com<br />
Office: 949.858.2442<br />
Toll Free: 877-484-LIFE</p>
<p>START LIVING!!!</p>
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		<title>Finding My Voice</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 21:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Touching Client Testimonial written by Step Stones For Life client and blog user, FindingHope. For a very long time, I was suffering from an awful eating disorder. Bulimia is a deceitful voice in one’s head, ironically feeding not from food, but off of fear, anger &#38; anxiety. It grows stronger by manipulating and shadowing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Touching Client Testimonial written by Step Stones For Life client and blog user, FindingHope.</p>
<p>For a very long time, I was suffering from an awful eating disorder. Bulimia is a deceitful voice in one’s head, ironically feeding not from food, but off of fear, anger &amp; anxiety. It grows stronger by manipulating and shadowing one’s true self, until one day, you don’t recognize the person staring back at you in the mirror. It is a horrifying experience to realize the monster you’ve grown inside, and even worse to surrender to it.</p>
<p>During the course of my disorder, I felt my soul slowly slipping away. For a while I believed that it was held in place, somewhere in my core, only by a tiny, delicate thread. I continued my lifestyle for years until I wasn’t even sure if it was there at all. A constant numbness convinced me that I had lost my soul forever, creating this vast hollowness inside, so deep I don’t know where it began or ended.</p>
<p>I was convinced by this voice that I would be like this forever. I accepted both the dependence and false support I received from this disguised demon. His arms were wrapped around me so tightly I could hardly breathe. Yet, how would I function without him? In essence, fear perpetuated fear. My attempts at recovery can only compare to a very bad relationship. The kind where you break up and reconcile, over and over. You constantly try to end it, but end up running back to open arms, feeling both safety and shame at returning yet again.</p>
<p>Sometimes I think about the recovery process I experienced with my life coach as unbelievable, because I truly felt that I was a lost cause beyond repair. I wanted so badly to live a different life, I just didn’t know where, or when, or how to begin.</p>
<p>Due to an intense fear of judgment, I had trouble asking for help. When I finally reached out for life coaching with Nova, I still had issues trusting someone with my dark and shameful secret. Slowly, and when I was ready, she convinced me, among other things, to simply find hope. It was inside me all along, buried by illusion. Hope presented itself as this flicker of light, a momentary reflection of gold, a chance at a meaningful and fulfilling life. For the first time in years, I felt the presence of my soul, of me, and was secretly in awe of the strength of that tiny, delicate thread.</p>
<p>I feel emotional when I think about my life coaching experience. I am overwhelmed with gratitude, excitement, and even a little fear at the prospect of this new life that I’m creating. But even a big amount of fear is not enough to pull this heavy anchor of hope, faith, and awareness I discovered inside of me, all thru the steady encouragement of my life coach. I am a great work in progress, constantly learning and growing. I have a bright, golden voice.</p>
<p>With Sincerity,</p>
<p>FindingHope<br />
A Step Stones For Life Client</p>
<p>There is always Hope.</p>
<p>Life Coach Nova<br />
Email: <a href="mailto:Nova@StepStonesForLife.com">Nova@StepStonesForLife.com</a><br />
Call: 949-858-2442  or Toll Free: 1-877-484-LIFE</p>
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		<title>Battling Eating Disorders</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 21:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nova Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are not alone. The epidemic of unhealthy eating patterns, extreme measures, and the quiet secrets of today’s women and men to get thin and stay thin indicates a broad social undercurrent of influence. All over the country, and especially here in Orange County, pressures can be suffocating for teens, women of all ages, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are not alone. The epidemic of unhealthy eating patterns, extreme measures, and the quiet secrets of today’s women and men to get thin and stay thin indicates a broad social undercurrent of influence. All over the country, and especially here in Orange County, pressures can be suffocating for teens, women of all ages, and yes men too. The constant evaluation from peers, strangers in the mall, and ourselves spurs anxiety. When anxiety sits with you in any situation, your reaction will be more physical. Think about the physical reaction of anxiety; your heart races, your stomach hurts, your palms sweat, you may even get dizzy. When anxiety reaches uncomfortable levels, your natural defenses kick in to try to avoid reaching that level again. Some people rationalize, some withdraw, some work through anxiety. Then there others that sit with anxiety until fear overtakes them and becomes a dominant theme in their life.</p>
<p>Fear is the root of any disorder. Focusing on eating disorders, fear can override even the most intellectual, attaching onto food, body image, and self-esteem. Fear of Judgment spins the common thread with individuals who have suffered through an eating disorder. The story behind Fear of Judgment gets strength from the natural defense to escape fear and uncomfortable judgment. The diligent, extreme dieter can literally disappear from judgment by becoming and staying thin, sometimes too thin. Weight can also fluctuate drastically up and down adding desperation and harming natural metabolism intensifying the emotional and physical battle to just feel normal. The focus turns from weight, to escaping judgment and fear. The cycle of escaping judgment can be so intense, health suffers, relationships suffer, and the spirit suffers. Fear of Judgment turns self-definition to self-escape and negative self-talk, taking away from emotional presence, joy, and personal growth.</p>
<p>There is always hope in battling eating disorders. If you think of an eating disorder as a manifestation of fear, then the real battle becomes conquering fear. Fear is tricky to spot, until it literally overtakes you. By understanding and decreasing the precursors to fear, such as anxiety, guilt, and shame, you gain insight into how fear works and undermines you. The strongest warrior against fear is your own voice. Defining, accepting, and building yourself provides you with the armour needed to protect you from fear and move through perceived judgment. Fear of Judgment becomes more intense when individuals must turn to others and their environment to define who they are. If your self-definition remains strong, you look inward, toward your heart and soul, warming away the coldness of fear.</p>
<p>Without fear, you are free to be healthy on all levels. Food becomes fuel, and your body becomes a gift. Without fear, relationships improve, your voice will surface, and success will greet you around every turn.</p>
<p>Warmly,</p>
<p>Life Coach Nova</p>
<p>Blast through fear, define yourself, and move through life with success. Contact me for a complimentary consultation.</p>
<p>Don’t forget to visit my Herbal Nutrition Store for a healthy and balanced approach to good nutrition and staying lean and fit.</p>
<p>Email: <a href="mailto:Nova@StepStonesForLife.com">Nova@StepStonesForLife.com</a><br />
Or call: 949-858-2442<br />
Visit my online nutrition store and get started today to the road to health. Secure online ordering, fast shipping, and personal service:<br />
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